This week started out with heavy storms, both literally and figuratively. Last Saturday I woke up with a horrific headache and no pain medication in the house to take besides some heavy post-operative pharmaceuticals I didn’t think my ailment called for. With my husband gone to an appointment I did my best to prepare a suitable breakfast for Parker and then sit as still as possible at the table while she ate. It seemed any movement would send a shooting pain and bending over was agony. I rushed my daughter, as much as a two-year old can be rushed, to hurry her eating so that I could get back to bed. I sadly denied her requests to be picked up or to sit on my lap because it hurt too much. She cooperated with my ailment, as children mysteriously do in times of need. We finished in the kitchen and retreated to my bed where she sat quietly watching Elmo while I lay, eyes closed hoping my husband would be home soon. The throbbing got to be too much at one point and I rushed to the bathroom to get sick, Parker calling on the other side of the door to see if Mommy was okay. I crawled back to bed and text Reggie to get home as soon as possible.
I didn’t leave my bed much during the weekend, hurting and frustrated at having to cancel all of our weekend plans. The anger I felt from the wasted time of having to lay there, when I had so many things on my to-do list not getting accomplished, probably made my head even worse. By the time my migraine was subsiding on Sunday afternoon my body was achy and weak. Despite having to suffer through the weekend the bright side was it happened on the weekend and would have been more difficult to interfere with Reggie’s schedule during the week to have to take care of Parker. He did do a great job taking care of Parker too, even utilizing ‘phone a friend’ to find out how to take the day old french braid out of her hair.
With the week starting out so rough I didn’t have high expectations there would be much happening this week. I was pleasantly surprised to have three big rainbows after the storm.
On Monday, back in touch with life and people, I learned my cousin had passed her test to begin an instructorship path recognized by the Thai Boxing Association of the USA. She first told me of this test back in December painting a picture of a long examination of strikes, kicks and grappling lasting hours. Had I been present to observe, the violence would have left me cowering in a corner rocking with my head between my knees. Surrounded by peers, valued instructors and the founder/director of Thai Boxing Association she was honored with the title of Khru meaning teacher. I am so proud of her for this achievement, not only because she honestly has the strength in her tiny frame to kick ass, this accomplishment means so much more about her endurance to overcome obstacles she has in her life. Truly amazing!
My second rainbow came from a friend sharing some bun in the oven news. She and her husband are expecting and I have been trusted in her closest circle to hear before it’s made public (so shh, this is a secret.) I’m ecstatic for her to begin the adventure into parenthood and to help her as much as I can (with advice from long distance) dealing with the pregnancy ailments. Feeling sick , feeling tired, back pain, side pain, urgency to pee, loss of sleep, loss of appetite, increase in appetite, swelling, sweating, being easily irritated and no glass of wine to fix it – I don’t know how women can love it!? The enjoyment I found in being pregnant came with the movement, first just tiny flutters, then kicks, somersaults and finally and obvious cramped space where neither of us could move much. Although I wasn’t a woman who loved being pregnant, I wasn’t in a rush to deliver her because I knew for that time only she was all mine before I would have to share her with the world.
And finally the third rainbow came last night in the form of a proposal. My little sister, Heather, and her long-time boyfriend, Kyle, are officially getting hitched. I happened to be at my parent’s house when she called to share the news. When my mom began shouting into the phone “Really? Really?” I immediately assumed my brother had hit it big calling from Vegas. She put it on speaker phone and we all celebrated with cheers and tears. When my mom continued the jumping and cheering after the phone call Parker looked at her shaking her head “Silly Nana,” she said before joining in with “Hooray” and dancing.
Ironically I had just been thinking of Kyle earlier in the day counting my brothers and sisters. Biologically I only have 2 siblings, all together I calculated six wonderful brothers and five beautiful sisters I recognize as my family. Kyle has been my brother already for years, it never mattered what their legal status was. We always knew they would live a happily ever after together, now there will just be a party to celebrate it.
So with the start of the week wrecked, I am ending it with a smile. Life is beautiful.